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The Dangers of a Work-Spouse; Protect Your Marriage from Temptation
For a decade, two of our sons were ocean lifeguards. Lifeguarding involves hours and hours of boredom followed by 15 minutes of heart pumpin’, adrenaline fueled rescues. They tell me about the...
View ArticleMiserable Marriage / Magical Marriage
What if your efforts to talk with your husband about the little ‘trouble spots’ (i.e. huge dark clouds of numerous problems) in your marriage are not working? To his credit, he is trying to hear you....
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Week 41: Affection is Connection
If you are just joining the Sex Drive Transformation Challenge, WELCOME and please see the INTRODUCTION HERE. (Husbands, if you are reading, this topic affects you just as much as it does your wife....
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Hidden Libido Treasure in Michele Weiner-Davis Video
I’m sorry I’ve been MIA. If you follow me on twitter or facebook, you may have seen some posts regarding our relocation to FL. Yep, we are moving further south. Good thing my blood is already...
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Budget Minded Gifts for Her
In Budget Minded Gifts for Him, I suggest romantic yet thrifty gifts that touch his five senses. Today, gentlemen, I’d like to suggest gifts for your wife that scream pursuit. Just because you won...
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Winds of Change: A Husband’s Profound Influence on Her Sex Drive
My heart has been touched by recent emails I’ve received from men who are desperately in love with their wives and hurting. Their wives do not realize the importance of sexual intimacy. A few...
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Permission to Feel Beautiful
For a long while I was not in a good place with sexual intimacy and part of the struggle was trying to reconcile the inner beauty/outer beauty mindset. Scripture seemed to tell me inner beauty was...
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13 Ways My Husband Influenced My Sex Drive
Although my intended audience is low-libido wives, recently a husband left this comment, “I read your blog to help me understand my no drive wife…..….There is no hope after so many years of this. I...
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His Emotional Needs are Wrapped up in Sexual Intimacy with You
As Dave and I began to mend our broken marriage, we pleaded with God for help. Apparently, God heard our urgency because he started to do some unveiling. He let me peek into Dave’s heart. For a...
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Gratitude – A Simple Way to Improve Sex Drive
Your interest in sex is shaped by everything that goes on outside of the bedroom. Gratitude is an attitude that can improve your sex drive by helping you to emotionally desire to make love with your...
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Transform Sex into Lovemaking
Which would you prefer? Sitting in a “rumble massage” chair at the airport or laying on a leather table while a masseuse dissolves away the tension? Eating a packaged chocolate cupcake or a homemade...
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How to Arouse Sexual Desire through Emotional Connection
Welcome to the Sexual Interest Masterclass. This is the introductory post of a series to help marriages with mismatched sex drives. I’m driven by my emotional libido more than my physical libido....
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I’m Just Not In-Love With Him (Sexual Interest Masterclass)
In my last post, How to Arouse Sexual Desire Through Emotional Connection, I explained how my sexual interest is driven by the emotional connection Dave and I have. If you are a low-libido wife, I...
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Simple Steps To Lead You To Sexual Interest (Sexual Interest Masterclass)
If you’ve read and How to Arouse Sexual Interest Through Emotional Connection and I’m Just Not In-Love With Him, you know that building an emotional connection between husband and wife is crucial for...
View ArticleHelp! I’m Angry About Sex.
Two things: First, read to the end of this post for an opportunity to see me on a webinar. Second, I take the time to personally answer each email I receive. I haven’t made a habit of posting these...
View ArticleFriendship 101: Just Talk (or the art of conversation)
Here’s why building a friendship is so important for wives with low sex drive. “Emotional libido” is a term I use sometimes to describe a wife’s desire to be sexual based upon her emotional connection...
View ArticleFriendship Builds Sexual Interest
Healthy marriage, healthy sex life with the one another passages. Because some of us haven’t really seen a healthy marriage or we came into marriage with expectations that weren’t realistic, every...
View ArticleSimple Steps To Lead You To Sexual Interest (Sexual Interest Masterclass)
If you’ve read and How to Arouse Sexual Interest Through Emotional Connection and I’m Just Not In-Love With Him, you know that building an emotional connection between husband and wife is crucial for...
View ArticleHelp! I’m Angry About Sex.
Two things: First, read to the end of this post for an opportunity to see me on a webinar. Second, I take the time to personally answer each email I receive. I haven’t made a habit of posting these...
View ArticleFriendship Builds Sexual Interest
Healthy marriage, healthy sex life with the one another passages. Because some of us haven’t really seen a healthy marriage or we came into marriage with expectations that weren’t realistic, every...
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